Tuesday, January 3, 2012

After trauma I have literally nothing to do with my life have nothing left and start over continuously..?

..Whatever your trauma was that you had experienced, the one most important fact to all of that should now be gratitude. You are a survivor, you have come through it, and there are many lessons, skills, and tools we can pick up along the way..."Scars remind us where we have been, they do not have to dictate where we are going"...Lives change, everyday and this is a good thing as we grow and mature, learn what we need to, and then p on our experiences, strengths, and hopes with those who would ask for it, listen, and want it...Trauma can leave us stuck in the victim role which is never a healthy place to live. We are responsible to & for our self, to be a friend to the friendless, to volunteer our time if we can to the good of others..It is the mind, the thoughts that must change within you. If you want a friend, you must first be one. You are not a victim, you are a survivor. The worst is over and you have lived through it. Take those experiences, learn from them, and share them with someone, maybe one day they will not have to go through what you or I, or many others also have..There is purpose in every single thing that happens to each of us, but sometimes we need to feel humble and grateful to see even a small portion of that purpose..We must move within, take action for our life or we will become stagnant and wither away..It is up to each of us to make this choice for our life, no one can do this for us..We must take the initiative and move into the path already chosen and awaiting each of us... Listen to what the silence, the peace and quietness of your mind and heart together is telling you. Rid your self of any form of victimization or self pitying thoughts, because these will only oppress you more and more each day. Whatever you do let it not be in vain, there are no irrelevant tasks, for we need them all..You are as important as anyone is on this planet and your presence here is for a purpose. Move forward with your life for there is still so much yet to experience..Pray that the door will open for you, then walk through...Take care and God Bless

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